What is Verbal Abuse?
When people think of an abusive marriage, physical abuse is usually what comes to mind first. This is likely because, for victims of verbal abuse, it is sometimes difficult to define exactly what is happening. Unlike physical abuse, where the evidence is outward and easy to identify, verbal abuse is internally damaging. The use of harsh words to control and harm another person does constitute abuse and can be very harmful to a person’s self-esteem and outlook on life.
If you have been verbally abused by your spouse and are considering divorce, the San Diego divorce attorneys of Fischer & Van Thiel, LLP can help. Any kind of abuse is unacceptable, and our team of compassionate and experienced attorneys will work hard to make sure your rights and interests are protected. Call our offices today at 760-722-7646 to speak with an attorney.
Types of Verbal Abuse
The signs of verbal abuse are less obvious than physical abuse, but they can be extremely harmful. Here are some examples of what typically constitutes a verbally abusive relationship:
- Negative name calling – They use names that are mean-spirited and intended to hurt
- Shaming words – Your spouse constantly criticizes your actions, big or small with sarcasm, mocking, or shame
- Yelling/screaming – Your spouse blows up at any perceived mistake
- Threats – made “jokingly” or seriously
- Dismissing your feelings – They avoid discussing any of your problems or concerns
- Playing on your emotions – Using emotionally charged words and arguments to control your behavior
If you believe that you are in an abusive relationship, it’s important to know that you do not have to remain in that relationship. Contacting a reliable divorce attorney can be the first step to recovering from an abusive marriage.
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The San Diego divorce attorneys of Fischer & Van Thiel, LLP believe that no one should have to stay in an abusive relationship. If you have decided to take action and end an abusive marriage, contact us today at 760-722-7646.
